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Thursday, January 21, 2016

Pregnancy Preparation


A grand adventure is about to begin.

– Winnie the Pooh


So, here I am.. talking about pregnancy. As much as I said wanna postpone my pregnancy here but the time finally has come. And no... I'm not pregnant (yet) ^^ but I think preparing pregancy is as important as I was planning for my marriage ceremony. I wanna be able to track down everything in the future so I want to write it down.  :)

People aound me know that me and Mr. A wanna postpone to have a baby after getting married. I plan to have one after the CNY 2016 celebration. 
However, I have started to pay a lot of attention in my menstruation cycle for the past few years. I note it down every month in my journal. My cycle has been always in 30 days cycle for the past one year. The last two years was about 28-30 days cycle.
The point I write it down is that so if in one or two months I missed it out of the cycle, I couldchecked myself what could have happened, usually it was because I was stressed out or too tired withing those months.  I notice that pay attention to my cycle will help me a lot in conceiving process later. 

PS: You can read it more here. Or... if you want just calculate it here. It's funny that even it can tell which period of time that can concieve a baby boy and which one for a baby girl. hehehe.

So, it all started early of this month that I told Mr. A that I think it's about time that we should have a try. I got the feeling actually it won't become a first try.

Since I always note down my very first day of menstruation, I could count my fertile days. We did have our intimate moment during those days and after it also. 


After that, I was full with excitement of waiting to get pregnant  *silly huh*  I prayed also to have one for us if it's our time. I started collecting the Obgyn name list. hahahaha.
During that time, I noticed that Mr. A wants it also. Once he even asked me while holding my tummy, " Kira-kira ada dede ga ya?"   

However,  I got my menstruation today. I felt a bit upset despite I had predcit it already and also glad that I can do it properly now. I used to think that we have to get a very good preparation before getting prgenant before our marriage time. But now I just followed my desired. So, I texted Mr. A this morning when I got my mentruation and I said I could prepare well now. He asked me to see the obgyn to schedule our preparation. I was told to had a folid acid by one of my friend actually since few months ago, but I hesitated to take because I think it wasn't time yet then I also talked to Ping2 about folid acid and I decided want to have it now. 
Mr. A doesn't allow me to have one without seeing the doctor first. So, soon after my period is over, we will visit one.

Question is...which obgyn?

I have cut down my list into two in my short list that I want to see.  One doctor in RS. Puri Indah and the other in RS. Family Pluit. But, I think I will discuss first with Mr. A about this.

I pray that I can meet a good doctor that has a good karma relation with me and Mr.A so that he/she will be our future baby "guardian angel" ^^



23 comments:

  1. aq langsung searching apa itu Obgyn ^^v gak ngerti soalnya ..
    Happy Preparation ciii ..
    aq akan segera nyusul deehhhh *nantii* :p hehehe

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    1. Hehehe.. dktr kandungan, der. Males ketik panjang2.
      Thank you, Der. Cpet nyusul ya. Hehehe.. or jgn2 ud duluan nih ^^

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  2. Ehemm2, baby is on the way :)

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  3. mudah2an bs langsung ketemu obgyn yg cocok ya shal.. :)
    aku ga pernah catet tanggal pertama & hari terakhir mens nih.. wkwkwk. mestinya dirutinin buat catet ya. :D

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    1. Thanks, Cyn. Mnrtku sih hrs catetin krn biasa klo k dktr klo ud cb susah hamil bs ditny. Tar hrs wait another month lg buat observe tar ^^

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    2. Klo ak sih siap2 aja catetin tiap bln biar tau masa subur. Hohoho

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  4. Shal, gue ga pernah catetin tgl mens dari dulu, hahahahaha..

    all the best ya Shal, Tuhan akan berikan little angel to U en mr. A in the right moment and right time. bawa dalam doa en usaha aja ya Shal, jangam dibawa stress or ngoyo

    yup blh Shal konsul dulu sama dokter biar lebih yakin :) semoga dapet obgyn yang klik ya Shal

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    1. Iya, Ping. Ga ngoyo sih cm niat.. wkwkwkwk..

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  5. Shal, gue ga pernah catetin tgl mens dari dulu, hahahahaha..

    all the best ya Shal, Tuhan akan berikan little angel to U en mr. A in the right moment and right time. bawa dalam doa en usaha aja ya Shal, jangam dibawa stress or ngoyo

    yup blh Shal konsul dulu sama dokter biar lebih yakin :) semoga dapet obgyn yang klik ya Shal

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  6. Semoga indah pada waktunya ya Shal, jiayouuuu :D

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  7. Happy preparation Shal.. Can't waittt... hihihi.. ;p

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    1. G lebih2 can't wait. apa rasanya yaaa tar ^^

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  8. folid acid bagus dear..
    tmn aku juga minum ~ hehe
    yee .. km berkunjung di Rs tempat kerja sy hehe ~
    semangat .. semoga lancar ^^

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    1. Iya, Ren.. Thanks loh for the info last time ^^

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  10. semua akan indah pada waktunyaa :) tetep semangatt, cant't wait for next posting "I'm Pregnant" ihiiiyyy *pom-pom*

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