Since THAT day....

Yuhuuu..finally bs update blog lagi. 

Tapi belum proper blog walking again karena daily selalu running out of time. Di tmpt kerja nguber ketinggalan bahan dan koreksi sana sini karena 3 hari absen. Di rumah kalau sudah sore pulang bantuin beres-beres kelar bisa2 udah jam 8 malam. While after that Mr. A melarang untuk memegang HP lama. >.< 

However, mumpung masih euforia newlyweeds, share dikit ah. Kesan dan pesannya.  =P

H-3  November 4, 2015

My brother, sis in law, her mom and my niece, Bell flew to Jakarta from Surabaya. Excited buat ketemu ponakanku itu karena dari lahir belum pernah lihat dia loh. Mereka sampai jam 11 malam dan ak langsung made plan rencana hari berikutnya with my bro ini. Karena dy yang akan ak andelin sebagai driver here and there sekalian. wkwkwk. Then, I went to sleep after introduced myself to Bell.

gigiiiiittt!!

H-2  November 5, 2015

Hari ini ak masih sempet masuk ke sekolah untuk ngajar 1 sesi karena memang cuma 1 sesi sih kan sayang potong gaji full dan karena ak kn berdedikasi tinggi. *sambilngeloyorpergi* 

Nah, setelah ngajar my bro picked me up with his fam and my mom untuk ke tempat Cynthia di Serpong buat ambil gaun my mom. Super heavy traffic kesana. My bro's fam pening liat jalanan Jakartee yang muacet ga je. Cuma karena pintu tol karang tengah aje. Geblek toh yo.

Trz abz ambil gaun my bro drop me ke Desecretznail di Daan Mogot Baru buat nail art my wedding nail. Nah, ownernya yg langsung turun tangan tu buat nanganin. Ak made appoinment dulu sih with her. Sempet galau2 pake nail extension or kuku asli aja. Tapi akhirnya kuku asli aja. karena pertimbangan ak sebagai guru ga boleh aneh2 lagi tar sayang uda dibikin mahal.

make it glow and simple. bronze glitter and swarovski only

Abiz pedi meni and nail art, ak pulang sambil nunggu diantarin gaun dari Yumi Katsura marketing, Gisel. Tadinya mau ambil siang sebelum ambil gaun mama, tapi karena suatu hal storenya tutup jadi dressku mau dianterin. Tapi karena Gisel nya lama, jadi qta ubah meeting point jd ke CP deh karena sekalian mo jalan-jalan kesana sama my bro's in law' fam.

H-1  November 6, 2015

Pertanyaan dari para vendors, blogger' friends in grup chat, sodara2 dan teman2 tentang bagaimana my feeling H-1 tu selalu dapat jawaban yang sama dari ak: " Biasa aja". 

H-1 ini ak masih ke mangdu sama sodara2 mama and my bro's fam. Pulang dr mangdu masih nyantai2 beresin barang2 buat keep di hotel dan baru check in room hotel setelah jam 10 malam. MUA dan WO padahal menunggu info kamar. Abz itu ak masih baca komik dl sebelum tidur. Trz sengaja ga set alarm buat bangun pagi karena my mom tu harus make up start jm 5 sebenarnya karena hair do-er nya ada janji jm 7. Tapi males bnr bangun pagi. 

The D- Day, November 7, 2015

Kebangun right at 4 a.m. haiyaaaa..tanpa alarm, tanpa wake up call. Yaudin lah yak. Mandi dll. Tapiii klo ditanya perasaan masih biasa aja. Deg-degan kaga, excited biasa aja. Just enjoy that day.

Overall hari ini merasa rileks banget dan bersyukur acara berjalan sesuai rencana bgnt. Run down hari H akan di post di post lain deh setelah dapat foto-foto wedding dari Photofactory nya.

At the end of the day, we were just so glad it has over and we got married already. Banyak kejadian lucu diantara kita berdua, saking nyantainya yang ada malah jadi ga terliat anggun. 

H+1  November 8, 2015

Morning kita bangun dan breakfast with Dee di hotel. She stayed there also. Tapi masih ketemu banyak fam Mr. A di ruang breakfastnya. Kemudian my fmil -who is my mil now-, juga datang ke hotel buat ketemu Dee and her fam karena mereka akan back to Bali that night. Ak dan Mr. A rencana mau pulang ke rumah nyokap buat ketemu my bro and say goodbye to my niece. Tapiiii..my mil melarang. Harus hari ketiga baru boleh pulang...>.< terpaksa kita menurut. *sob*

Trz karena uda mesen uber nya, jadi kita ke......Senci. Movie date pertama as husband and wife tontonannya Spectre. wkwkwk.. Then, we spent the afternoon at hotel (masih dapat 1 malam lagi) makan Wendy's trz massage n spa dr complimentary hotel. 

Abiz massage kita kelaparan lagi dan kita mesen makanan lagi deh dr room service. Makan dengan ganas. ^^

That night, I had a dream about cutting my hair.. want it so bad!

H+2  November 9, 2015

Hari checked out and back to reality.. nah, klo hari H ga pake deg2an, hari ini malah deg2an karena bakal masuk k rumah Mr. A. Lebih tegang and worry gt sedikit. Abiz breakfast kita panggil uber head back home, beres2 and cus kermh nyokap. Nyokap expected us to have lunch there. Stlh itu berangkat lah kita ke Puri untuk merealisasikan mimpi dimalam sebelumnya. Rambutku ud mulai rontok dan kusut parah krn too much spray on D day. Mengorbankan 1 sisir patah pula pas nyisir sehari sebelumnya. Jadi ak ke Ando n Yun, milih potong dengan Korean stylistnya dan request cut it short! 

Hasilnya...beda tipis ma rambut dora. yasudahlah yang penting enteng.

Pulang dr Puri masih ke rmh nyokap buat ambil bbrp barang ak yang perlu dipake. Beberapanya itu 4 tas.. >.< dan masih butuh 1x trip lagi. 

Malamnya kita menghitung "upeti" dari D day ^^

H+3 November 10, 2015

Ak masih cuti sih. Jadi hasil hitung "upeti" kita report ke my mil dan akhirnya dy kasih Mr. A buat simpen semua. Siang itu juga kita setor ke bank dan cairin giro yang kita dapat, setelah itu kita cus ke Semanan. Lunch nasi campur n visit our friend yg akan lahiran besoknya. 

Abiz dari sana, Mr. A mengajak ke TA or CP, katanya "Kamu mau nungguin I Phone 6S or gimana?"

Hmmm.... have no idea. Ak emang pengen ganti tp mikirnya tar kumpulin duit dl. Tapi ternyata Mr. A mau beliin. *kiissssss* 

Jadilah kita ke TA, disitu kita muter lantai 3 aja dari masing2 toko dan ak ga mau ipin itu. Ak lbh suka yang S. Jadi dy minta ak liat2 sendiri. Less than 1 hour uda beres deh. As usual, kita klo beli barang ga pernah pake ribet. ^^

H+4 November 11, 2015

Get back to work.. first thing I noticed on my table is this :

greeting cards and a flower from my kiddos.^^

I got a hug from the girls and congratulates from them. Hari ini ak bertekad ga marah sama mereka. Hehehe. *lagibaek*

Things at work place just ran like usual, yang beda adalah kerjaanku ga abiz2. 

Adaptasi pertamaku adalah rute ke tmpt kerja. Perginya sih enak, pulangnya ampiuuun..

Adaptasi kedua adalah things to do before and after dinner. Huff.. masih perlu banyak belajar nih.

H+5 dan seterusnya....

Masih dalam euforia suami istri, sudah ada kesel2an pertama ^^ Tidur msh holding hands, masih dapat deep hugs dan masih amaze "We have got married." 

Masih perlu banyak belajar dan beradaptasi juga. Jadi kalau ditanya soal anak..kita sih tunda sebisanya dulu. Belum terlalu siap mental. Jadi nikmati dulu n jalan2 dulu deh. hehehe..

We are learning.. and will always learn to keep hold onto each other.

Mau share our pop up book story here.. Maklumin yak editannya tapi thanks to Yulius yang bersedia editin dalam waktu super singkat. Thanks for Debo for making our first pop up book. This pop up book will always remind us our journey before the D day. 

It's our new beginning...

A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short.

Andre Maurois

So long...freedom.

Lebay ye judulnya? 

Well, as much as I love Mr. A, I do love my freedom as well. 

So, kegalauan belakangan ini salah satunya berhubungan dengan kebebasanku setelah merit nanti. 

Kenapa gitu?

Simple sih. karena Mr.A dan ak tu dua pribadi yang super bertolak belakang. Kalau Mr. A tu tipe yang tipe co homey. bs dirumah aja dan do same things over and over again. Kalau ak tipe yang suka ngumpul bareng temen-temen, ngobrol2, chit chat, rame2 lah. Trz ak tipe bosenan dengan rutinitas yang gitu2 aja. (That's why I am a teacher, because students will never enough give you stuffs to do ^^)

Apa aja yang digalauin?

Pastinya mikir tar abiz merit mo hangout gmn? Mr. A tu jaraanag bgnt mau ikut klo ak ngajak hangout dengan temen2. Dy memilih stay at home during weekend and I'll be the one that going here and there. >.< Nah, Mr. A sih ga melarang yak. Dy bilang "kamu aja yang pergi sama temen-temenmu sendiri.".

Tapiiii..tar abiz merit kn tinggal bareng mertua. Apa katanya yak kalau menantunya ini yang ngelayapan aja?  *Oh nooooo*

Jadi gimana tuh?

Jadi....sementara..I say goodbye to my freedom dah. 

Hiks. 

Sebenarnya, when I was younger (read: jaman kuliah) I would like to go clubbing, drinking or even did some smoke except two things: NO drugs and NO free sex. I am not that stupid to ruin my life for those things. However, dulu tipe my ex -es tu mostly bad boys karena the thrill feeling aja. Tapi those relationships never last than 1 year. 

When I graduated and one night I was so drunk and I woke up with terible hangover, I decided to stop myself and don't drink beyond my capacity and stop that for fun smoking,. It's not cool anymore and I feel old.. and it was 10 years ago. I can't tolerate any drinks since that time.

Last Friday, I hang out with my work peers. Judulnya cuma buat senang2. No my boyfriend and met new people. Just ate, drink, karaoke only. I got tipsy tapi masih sober enough to sing. But I knew, I will not have that kind of night anymore in the future because I love what I have now. That was just for fun and thanks to Mr. A who let me go ^^

they sang passionately *lol*

I might won't come back there anymore. Didn't enjoy the food also. 

So, Mr. A selalu jadi co baek2 donk?

Of course not. 

Mr. A memang ga suka dengan suara bising dan hingar bingar. Selama kuliah dan sekolah di Indonesia sih dy ga pernah tu clubbing. Tapi beda cerita waktu dy di Cina. malah pernah mabuk juga. Apalagi keluarganya termsuk liquor collectors even his dad can make his own wine. Jadi, dy familiar with liquor jg. Saat nongkrong dengan temen2 dari Cinanya juga dy masih drink or even smoke sometime. Tapi, I know that's not his habit. He does what he needs to do like I do when we hangout with friends. 

But his aims is healthy life. Malah kemarin dy bilang uda harus mulai kurangin makan daging2an, bakar2 dan lain2 (he loves steaks so much) aka uda harus jaga makan n hidup sehat. Menurutnya uda saatnya harus lebih jaga kesehatan.

Freedom nya?

Dipikir2 sih ak masih bisa koq nongkrong dengan temen2 mainku once in a while. Lagian abis merit msh bisa kerja, bisa nongki dulu sebelum pulang, masih bisa jalan ke bazaars, ke cafe, out of town bareng our hubbies n boyfriends (some even with their children). Masih boleh ikut yoga class dan malah masih dikasih bikin usaha bareng temen (he supports me for this). Jadi ya, I still have many gateaway. Most important thing, I knew Mr. A won't restrict me. *lope*

Asal.......g tau diri kali yeee..hehehehe

"I always believe that a man who can't take care of himself well will never capable to show his love towards other as well."

myself

"Freedom consists not in doing what we like, but in having the right to do what we ought."

Pope John Paul II

10 hari lagi....

Kalau uda counting down days gini biasa uda sering deh ditanya tentang perasaan yak. Sedikit flash back yak.

H-3 weeks

Pada saat itu, uda mulai muncul perasaan excited and deg-degan gt. Kemudian setelah technical meeting yang emnguras tenaga, pikiran dan waktu selama 6 jam, akhirnya memunculkan perasaan lain yaitu khawatir.

Khawatir kenapa?

Pada saat TM wktu itu banyak penambahan dilakukan, sebagai berikut:

1. Sebenarnya jatah stall yang boleh dari luar hotel hanya 2 stalls dengan max. 200 porsi. Itupun kena charge 200k/ stalls. Tapi ternyata my fmil memesan 3 stalls dengan porsi masing 25o. Which means bakalan ada biaya charge tambahan donk ya?

2. Kemudian setelah menghitung jumlah porsi makanan dengan asumsi 1000 tamu datang. Kita masih kurang 385 porsi di menu stalls. Jadi kita harus nambah stalls or nambah porsi. Jadilah kita nambah 1 stall dan juga porsi. Itupun masih sort of 5 porsi. Yaudahlah ya merem2 aja. Stall yang kita tambah 1 ekornya 500k dan kita mengambil 4 ekor. Uda deh pusing pala babi pas mikirin bayaran..

3. Then, kalau mau membawa alkohol uda pasti kena charge 200k per botol. And...Mr. A parents mo bawa...2 lusin. *glek* 

Emang sih, bisa dibilang ak bukan yang akan spend the extra money. Tapi merasa kalau untuk 2 jam tapi keknya biayanya ga worth it.... *pelit*

Dengan TM selama 6 jam uda pasti merasa overwhelmed banget lah ya.. Jadi worry this and that ga jelas. 

H-2 week

Still can't over the worry feeling gitu. Yang ada sekarang jadi berkembang menjadi perasaan "yakin ga ya??"

Menurut beberapa temen, itu fenomena umum sih yang terjadi. Malah menurut temen yang psikolog, itu juga wajar karena dy juga mengalami hal yang sama sebelumnya. Tapi most of it kan merasa deg2an, excited, worry ada, tapi kalau ga yakin sih jarang denger... hmmmm..

Padahal selama urus wedding ini selama setahun, ak dan Mr. A bisa dibilang ga ada yang namanya berantem gitu. Kita malah sangat considerate dan bersabar.
Kemudian sempet berpikir kalau seandainyaaaa waktu itu kita kekeuh ga mau wedding party, pasti ga akan berasa so wasting money kek gini or akan menjadi lebih intimate wedding rasanya. Trz efek lain dari perasaan ga jelas itu adalah males update details yang belum beres. Kek buat photo dan video liputan hari H kan kita dari Bali, orangnya ga ikut TM, dan uda diminta infonya via email sejak minggu lalu. Tapi ak maleees banget jawabin. Baru kemarin akhirnya memutuskan untuk bales emailnya. >.<
Bagiin sisa undangan aje males..Maunya tiduuur mulu or hang out with friends.. Keknya khawatir ilang me time. huhuhu.

Normal kaga ini? haizz..

Tapi....... kemarin juga titik balik keknya. Sedikit demi sedikit merasa mulai meningkat semangatnya.

Hari Senin kmrn dapat email dari pihak hotel mengenai hasil TM dan charge tambahannya. Uda ga berani buka sampai kemarin. Ternyataaaa... semua charge di tiadakan menjadi complimentary! The only payment hanya buat rooms for families karena ada minta bbrp room selain yang uda didapat free. Bersyukur banget!

Trz kemarin Jo from @signatureweddingdetails sent the pictures of our ring bearer yang uda jadi. Hari ini rencananya sudah sampe paketnya. Jadi berasa ga sabar n excited2 gimana gitu..

spoiler

spoiler lagi

spoiler lagiiii

Satu2nya detail kecil yang belum jadi hanya pop up book story tentang perjlanan hubungan Mr. A dan ak. Padahal masih mau divideoin buat hari H. >.<
Other than that keknya semua persiapan sih uda beres.
Plus lagi iseng2 mikir aja buat dried HB nanti. Tapi ini jg niat ga niat mikirnya. Kalau mo pake vendor khusus harusnya uda boleh DP dr sekarang. Tapi harganya itu loh klo 2 HB tu mahal bingits. keknya not worth it klo dipikir2 tar hasilnya jg ga yang awet, masih tergantung dari cara perawatan dan penyimpanan.
Jadi ini ya dipikirkan pelan2..

Semoga semangat ini muncul lagi. Lebih positif lagi.. *sigh*

P.S. Ada yang tau cara dried flowers ga ya?

Indeed

On my mood on writing this.

This post will be my second of products review particularly.. I just think these are really good products to share. Of course, it will be about skin care and make up items. 

Girls and ladies will never have enough products and brands for the sake of beauty, right? ^^

1. Sulwhasoo Overnight Vitalizing Mask.

I knew this brand for quite long time ago but it was never caught my attention until some of the igers said something about this mask and I saw her flawless skin so I googled this and got some nice reviews of it. Then, I just know that this brand actually is like a premium brand in Korea also. I recall seeing the store in Grand Indonesia. Then, I texted Mr. A to buy it if he happens to have his lunch there. He asked me what items that I need. I mentioned three but particularly I think I want  this one first to try. So, he bought one and it became his gift for me (still in the anniversary mood). Yey! It's free coz it's a bit pricey for a mask :( 

Why I need this? 

Because of I fell for the review from other bloggers, that igers and also from what it claims. ^^ This is what it stated on the website:

"An overnight mask awakening a radiant looking skin with nourishing moisture and herbal extracts." 

It is said that we have to apply it as the last step of our skincare routine, the best result is just leave it overnight and was it with luke warm water the next morning.

Review:

Night 1 -

I used it for the first time and I was apply it thinly only because I was not sure of the amount. I applied it right away after using my water essence. The next day I woke up, it was like usual only but it felt hydrated even I just used that mask.

Night 2 -

I used it a bit thicker now and I applied it after I applied my water essence, the jojoba oils and bathbox oils for mature skin and also my eye serum. The result in the morning was different from the day before. It was moist still but it was given different kind of glow in the morning that I like. 

Night 3 -

I used this almost the same like the other night routines but I add my moisturizer cream first  before the mask. The result even more amazing the next day! I just love how it glows my skin, moisten and also reduce my pimples!

The result can be seen just in 3 nights. Today will be my fifth night and I have fallen deeply with it. Anw, actually I wasn't sure how many times I have to use it per week. But I have "time limit" before my D day so I have to moist my skin and hoping to have clearer skin in the next few weeks. So, I just applied it everyday for this week. ^^ 

The product has a deep fragrance of herbal. Some might find this disturbing. As for me, it is relaxing :)

the texture

It likes giving a thin layer on our skin

Next, will be about my daily based make up items. I have several products for BB cushion, liquid foundie and sunscreen to use everyday. I never use the same one for the whole week. I like to use my routines based on the occasions that day

2. Shiseido Integrate Mineral Liquid Powder (SPF16 PA++)

I knew this product from a friend of mine (read: J). J bought this when she went to Japan, but  when she didn't want to use anymore, she sold it to another friend (read: E) . From E, she gave  a very great review about this and yes I can see the great finish look from this product. Too bad it doesn't sell worldwide and also not in Indonesia. I got mine from Amazon.com. I choose the shade 20 which is suitable for my skin tone. 

          

 Review:
Super love it! Whenever I am lazy to put on decent and delicate make up, I will just swatch this on my face and I am ready to go! It covers the redness on my face and also  different tone of my skin perfectly. Matte result!

I apply it on my index finger. Can you see the difference?

3. Laneige Snow BB Soothing Cushion (SPF 50+ PA++)

    

This one has a super high SPF. I love using this on my super casual day. Like going to work and whenever I am going to join a flag ceremony or spending time outdoor. Basically, it didn't cover the redness of my face and it has a dewy look result (or maybe shiny? since it has a high SPF). But, the longer it stays on my face, it looks better because it makes my face looks fresh.

4. Covergirl Outlast Stay Fabulous (natural beige with SPF 20) and Maybelline Dream Liquid   Mousse Classic Ivory (no SPF)

I love using them during weekend or a wedding party. But my favourite is the covergirl. It is easier to blend to my skin. As for the maybelline, I have to put on another product to perfect it and it has no SPF, so if I have to use it on day time, I have to put on my sunscreen first. However, it covers my skin on certain days when my skin is having "hard time" with PMS ^^ 

left: covergirl, right: maybelline

    

can you see that the covergirl gives better coverage and looks smoother?

5. Neutrogena Ultra Sheer Dry-Touch Sunscreen (SPF 45)

I will apply this when I just want to go to market in the Sunday morning or going to have breakfast with my friends and whenever I dun need any make up on. If you like swimming, this is water resistant up to 80 minutes. Always use sunscreen for your skin. It will give oily or shiny looks but it helps to prevent dark spots and wrinkles on your face ^^

It will not give white cast to your face after you apply it. Don't worry ^^

6. Innisfree No-Sebum Mineral Powder

Just like its name, it is powder. I just apply this as my final touch before I spray my make up setting spray. Just to make sure my oily face will come out slower than usual ^^. And make my make up stays longer. Sometimes I apply this using brush or using the pad given by just dabbing on my T-area, it depends on the layer before this.

Most of the time, I stay longer outside home since I apply my make up in the morning. But I can say that at the end of the day, it still stays on my face. So, deep cleansing is a must. 

Anyway, there are 3 items on my wish list:

- Dr. Jart+ BB Beauty Balm - I got the sample n love it!

- VDL Metal Cushion Foundation - I am planning PO this via my usual ol shop after getting married. 

- Sulhwasoo Skin Clarifying Mask - I've bought this via PO from one of IG online shop now. It's cheaper by 100k!

*ckckck* 

A girl should be two things, classy and fabulous.

Coco Chanel

Prenup sebelum menikah? _update_

Okay, kali ini mau bahas soal prenuptial agreement or dalam bahasa Indo bisa disebut perjanjian pra nikah. Kebetulan hari ini ak dan Mr. A akan ttd surat perjanjian tersebut nanti sore. 

Awalnya kita sih tidak berniat membuat prenup karena alasan cinta itu.. ^^ tapi bukan berarti sekarang kita buat karena tidak yakin atas cinta tersebut. Tapi lebih ke alasan yang lebih make sense sih. 

So, it was about 3-4 months ago waktu Mr. A mulai kasih ide untuk buat prenup. Mr. A lebih menekankan untuk perjanjian pisah harta sih. Tujuannya ya karena dia ada rencana jangka panjang dgn suatu pekerjaan yang akan lebih baik kalau kita pisah harta. 

Prenup ini jg haris diinfokan ke capil sehingga dapat disahkan, jika tidak diinfokan, tidak akan sah secara hukum. Jadi kita memang harus sudah tanda tangan sebelum hari H nanti. 

Setelah cerita sama beberapa teman ternyata banyak yang mengalami hal yang sama saat ini, saat mo expand bisnis tapi takut harta bersama "terseret" dan end up jd bankrupt bersama, so bbrp jg sedang mencari cara juga untuk melindungi harta salah satu pihak.

Tadi pagi ak udah baca isi draft prenup yang akan kutandatangani.. Well, lumayan deg-degan (norak.com) karena belum pernah berhubungan dengan hukum sedekat ini dan disatu sisi isinya memang sangat melindungi. 

Jadi, kalau ditanya perlu atau tidak prenup? 

Jawabanku adalah perlu sih.. Karena kita tidak pernah tahu dengan rezeki kita dimasa datang, peluang kita dan isinya pun kan bisa kita adjust dan it makes no harm jg sih. ^^ 

We did it.. that expensive papers =|

P.S. klausanya sih simple bgnt n standard bgnt menurut hukum perkawinan Indonesia yg berlaku mengenai kewajiban suami aja. :) hope that we wont need this in the future yak. 

Weddings to me are wondrous because they are so filled with tomorrows.

Mary Forsell

8th Dating Anniversary

Happy 8th years old dating anniversary!! (to me and Mr. A)

We've survived the first two years very long distance and on-off long distance for another two years. Many fights, worries, cries, dissapoinments during those years, but never forget about the sweet memories, the laughters, the smiles, the kisses, the hugs, the cuddles and the grateful feelings when we think of each other. 

Next year another celebration will start from number 1 again. hehehe. *excited*

Thank you, Indri for this illustration! xoxo *romanticmoodon*

Special thanks for Indri who was willing to help me with this illustration. I found that her drawing on her posts were so cute and I also have particular fond with hand drawing scetch.  =P

prepare a lil give for him coz I didnt give anything last year

I prepared a gift by impulsivenes again (as always last minute idea). I thought this will be the perfect gift to cherish our times and moments from was, now and then. I will request the help of Gx-xxk to deliver this to his office by this noon. This year will be my suprise, he gave me one last year ^^

May you live as long as you wish and love as long as you live.

Robert A. Heinlein

"Out of box" talks

Topik kali ini mendadak muncul when I was like lying on my bed and thinking of our preparation beginning. 

Sebelum semua hal fix sampai hari ini, ada banyak hal yang pernah masuk dalam pembicaraan ak, dengan Mr  A n even with our families.

First,  mengenai konsep pernikahan kita. Pd dasarnya yg membuat ak n Mr. A cucok itu krn qta berdua tipe pasangan yg ga ribetin details n asal yg lain oke ya hayuk.. tapiii, waktu bahas konsep ini, I disagreed with him. Ya iyalah, dy ngajakinnya kawin lari cb. (-_-' ) 

Dari awal emang kita sih ga pengen party. His sis sounding2 ke dy buat minta ke Eropa aja meritnya sekalian holiday with our parents and brothers, sister. Cicinya bilang dy bs cr agen buat urusin, gampang n ga usah pusing pesta jg gt. Annddd..Mr. A mupeng gt. Bbrp kali dy selalu ngomongin itu tapi his mom aka my fmil objected it. Karena msh byk famili, relasi, teman dll yang hrs dikasihtau. Kemudian soal pernikahan agama di Indonesia kan harus pake belajar dulu, urus detail gereja ini dan itu. Saat lg ribet2nya, Mr. A bilang kita ke Thailand aja yuk. Beres. (>.<).. judulnya sih cari ribut sama ortu klo gitu mah. I ignored him for that. Bahkan dy beberapa kali bilang mamanya n ak. My edan man.

Second, venue tempat wedding. H-2 months aja masih sempet mikir tu pindah gedung. (-_-' ) .Sejak awal sih dari pemilihan venue hotel, my fmil uda merasa ga sreg dgn warna karpet n pencahayaannya. Tapi karena deket juga dr rumahnya jd salah satu pertimbangan sih. Pada waktu deal venue memang marketingnya bilang ada rencana penggantian karpet sih pas lebaran 2015. Tapi sampai detik ini belum. Nah, wkt H-2 months, marketingnya ada cerita ke WO klo mereka ga bs ganti karena blm turun dana or instruksi dr Singapore. Jadi, marketingnya juga ga enak sih karena uda bilang my fmil untuk ganti, at that time, she said she will be okay even if my fmil decides to move from there and will return the down payment money. Saat si WO infoin kita, yang ada galau deh. Sempet kepikiran mo move to Sun City. Tp at our date uda ada bookingan. Harus dua minggu setelahnya. Uda niatin mikirin. Even soal undangan yg uda lg di cetak saat itu kan bakalan beda tanggalnya jg. >.< Me and Mr.A, berdiri aja cengar cengir bego gitu d. No comment. 

Untungnya ga dilaksanakan. *huff*

Anw, I had my sangjit yesterday.. Yes, selesai juga. Huff..

well, blame it on my phone camera. but I love her make up.
cuma ini too much for the brow and eyelashesnya dua lapis. I removed one layer.
And requested less natural again on the D Day. ^^

I love this jacquard. (salah satu hobi saat ini adalah beli kain2 trz jahit sendiri)

tuker cincin

Last update, I have choose the wedding cake model and............I have my wedding gown already. Uda lega deh. I choose Yumi Katsura aja. Karena searah pulang kerja mau fitting jg gampang. Best deal, nice gown.  

May all is well now and then.

Have patience. All things are difficult before they become easy.

Saadi